You're Not Inconsistent. You're Conditioned.
Discover the nervous system distortions secretly shaping your leadership (and exactly how to become Unfuckwithable™ by design).
Here's what I know about you;
You've done the work. Built the brand. Hired the coach.
You're not new to expansion & growth.
You have the receipts.
But something still feels...off.
You've evolved, but your energy feels scattered.
Your clarity flickers like a bad wifi connection.
Your leadership feels more like managing chaos than creating impact.
One of my Manifestor clients shared this breakthrough:
You're not broken. You're just tired of leading from patterns you didn't choose.
"I thought my problem was inconsistency. But I wasn't inconsistent—I was exhausted from trying to make my business feel 'safe' for other people instead of powerful for me."
Sound familiar?
You don't need more tactics. Or more noise.
You need to break up with the conditioning that's keeping you out of alignment.
If this is you, you're in the right place:
You find yourself constantly reinventing your voice — wondering why nothing feels quite "you" even though you've done all the inner work
You freeze when it's time to take bold action — second-guessing yourself into paralysis while watching others move with confidence you can't seem to access
You're exhausted from chasing consistency — when your energy naturally ebbs and flows, but you've been taught that's a character flaw
You crave rest but guilt yourself out of it — because somewhere along the way you learned that your worth is tied to your productivity
You over-deliver, over-justify, and over-function — then wonder why you feel resentful instead of fulfilled by your success
You know what works for others drains you — but you do it anyway because you've been conditioned to believe their way is the "right" way
You feel like you've outgrown your identity — but you don't know what comes next, so you stay stuck in patterns that no longer fit
You keep second-guessing your content and direction — even after it's worked before, because you've lost trust in your own knowing
You want to burn everything down and start over — at least once a month, because nothing feels aligned with who you're becoming
If any of that landed like a punch to the gut...welcome.
You're not behind. You're not broken. You're not "too much."
You're just buried under layers of "shoulds" that never belonged to you.
It's about unlearning the noise that's been running the show.
You don't need to push through.
You need a nervous system reset.
You need a filter that helps you recognize what's true for you...
This isn't about learning another strategy.
- The top conditioning patterns running your energy type so you can finally name what’s actually draining you
- Strategic deconditioning shifts that rewire your nervous system toward ease, momentum, and aligned leadership
- A Somatic Deconditioning Drop so you can get out of your head and into your body’s actual truth
- Deconditioning Cue Prompt to break the loop in real time (no more spiraling, fawning, or overcommitting)
- Identity Rehab Journal Prompts to remember who you are without the performance
- Business & Leadership Patterns specific to your energy type—how your not-self shows up in your work, and what alignment actually looks like
- Somatic Red Flags so you can spot misalignment before burnout hits
- Before & After Table to see what it looks like to move from conditioned to unfuckwithable
- “Try This” Signature Theme Practice that helps you re-anchor into your true energetic baseline (Satisfaction, Peace, Success, Surprise)
- Your Unfuckwithable Truth™ aka the mic-drop reminder of what becomes possible when you stop outsourcing your power
- Unfuckwithable Embodiment™ —the paragraph you’ll want to reread every time you forget who the fuck you are
Inside Your Unfuckwithable™ Deconditioning Guide, You’ll Get:
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Fuckwithable vs. Unfuckwithable™
What it feels like to lead from conditioning vs. embodied design:
Fuckwithable
(Conditioned Leadership)
Unfuckwithable™
(Deconditioned Leadership)
Chasing strategies that don't feel right
Building around what your energy actually wants
Saying yes when your body says no
Honoring your hell yes and letting it lead
Trying to keep up
Creating from overflow, not urgency
Outsourcing your authority
Trusting your internal signal system
Burned out, overcommitted, resentful
Boundaried, rooted, generative
Overexplaining and undercharging
Owning your value without justifying it
Constantly tweaking to get it “right”
Leading from truth, not trend
Creating for approval
Creating from satisfaction
The difference?
One keeps you spiraling in not-self noise.
The other makes you unfuckwithable…. because it’s rooted in who you actually are.
Hey...I’m Kyla.
I’m a 2/5 Generator with a Scorpio Rising, Aries Sun, and Sagittarius Moon, and I built an entire not-self life in luxury wine and tourism sales before I hit a wall.
Burnt out, dissociated, and quietly self-sabotaging, I left everything behind in 2017, moved to Spain alone, and began the real work of deconditioning.
That was the first time I stopped living the "conventional life” I was told to want and started listening to my body.
Since then, I’ve built a brand from alignment using Human Design and Astrology as entry points into deeper nervous system healing, identity reclamation, and self-trust.
I now own a home in the Mediterranean, run a category-of-one legacy, and help other leaders break free from the noise, the shoulds, and the survival strategies that no longer serve them.
This work isn’t about self-improvement. It’s about coming home to who you were before the world told you how to lead.
You were never too much. Or too inconsistent. Or too intense.
You were just wired to lead differently and conditioned to forget it.
Frequently Asked Questions
I’ve already done a lot of mindset work. How is this different?
This isn’t mindset work. It’s nervous system work. Most leadership advice teaches you to think your way into clarity. This helps you feel safe enough in your body to access it. You’ll stop forcing strategies that don’t work and start recognizing what actually aligns with your energy.
Is this just for entrepreneurs or business owners?
Nope. These guides are for anyone in a leadership role—whether you’re running a business, building a brand, or leading your own life. If you’re making decisions, navigating visibility, or unlearning survival strategies…you’ll get value.
I don’t know my Human Design energy type. Can I still get a guide?
Yes. You can find out your energy type by downloading your chart (for free) with our Human Design chart generator.
Once you know your type (Generator, Manifesting Generator, Projector, Manifestor, or Reflector), you can then request your custom deconditioning guide via the form on this page. We’ll send the guide straight to your inbox!
What exactly do I get when I download the guide?
- Your energy type’s top deconditioning patterns
- A somatic practice to reset when you’re stuck
- A personalized cue to help you re-center
- An identity rehab prompt
- Your Unfuckwithable™ Truth
- Real-world patterns to watch for in your leadership
- And much more!
How long will it take to go through the guide?
Less than 10 minutes to read. But these aren’t throwaway downloads. You’ll want to revisit yours again and again as you deepen your leadership, shift old patterns, and come back into alignment.
What if I have a different question?
If you have any other questions or need support, please send an email to hello@hathaastro.com. A member of the Hatha Astro team will get back to you as soon as possible.
Minimum Effort. Maximum Satisfaction. Unfuckwithably You.
Unfuckwithable™ (adj.)
The identity you reclaim when you reclaim the parts of you you thought you had to shrink.
Unfuckwithable Era™
The cultural shift away from performative power and into embodied truth. Where being regulated, real, and radically yourself becomes the new standard of success.
Unfuckwithable Embodiment™
The nervous system rooted expression of your full, untamed self.
Unfuckwithable Truths™
The bite-sized, soul-deep reminders of who you are beneath the conditioning. They don’t coddle. They calibrate.
